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Oyimbo Diary: Chapter 3
In the summer of 2006, Rainer Doost and his wife Valeria Watson-Doost spend three weeks in Nigeria as house guest of Chief Ifagbenusola Atanda. In this series of 9 weekly installments Rainer a videographer will share his experiences in words and video.
My first excursion into town
I’m eager to get out of the house and see the town. I ask Baba out of politeness if I can go out. I’m taken aback when he insists that he can not permit that and that if I insist I will have to give him a signed letter absolving him of all liability. He explains that his first and foremost commitment is to keep his guests save and protect them from any negative experience. He finally agrees to let me go in the company of Bayo and two other young Babalawos. I ask him to exchange 20 dollars for me and give it to Bayo without counting it. We are out the door. I feel like I have been in a bit of a prison for days. It feels great to be off on my own even if I have three keepers with me. Bayo flags down a small motorcycle and gets on and I assume he will get another one for me. No, he waves to me to get on behind him. I’m not totally surprised as I have seen these small bikes laden with even three passengers. The two other Babalawos already have flagged down another motorcycle and we are off. It is great fun. We get off towards the center of town, For the next couple of hours we wander around. Bayo is very concerned to show me the tourist spots and undoubtedly is very puzzled by my much greater interest in the people, vendor stands and shops. When we pass a group of children they point at me and yell out "Oyimbo", white man. I'm delighted to be such an unusual event for the children.
Our first stop is to look and at statue of the first king, Laro, holding a large fish. It stands outside the kings palace. Just around the corner we go down a narrow ally. The walls on either side are beautifully painted. We push aside a curtain and enter a wonderfully painted room. I slowly realize that this is an important shrine. There are several women and men looking at us somewhat expectantly and a conversation between Bayo and them ensues. I realize it is not going well. Finally one of the men addresses me in English and explains that we are in the temple of the high priestess of Osun and that it is traditional to prostrate before her and give a gift. I tell him I’m a guest of Chief Atanda and don’t know what the conventions are but am prepared to do what is required.
He then states that Chief Atanda never sends any one with out an accompanying gift. I ask him how much is expected and he says this is all unusual he is sure that Chief Atanda will set it right but I should prostrate before the high priestess. I do so and we quickly make our exit. I have just had my first lesson in protocol. My guides were of little help in the situation because they could not give me directions and probably naively assumed I would know what the situation called for. Later I discovered that Baba had made a mistake and given me 260 nira ($2) instead of 2600 ($20) consequently Bayo did not have enough cash to provide an acceptable size gift.
The rest of our outing is more gratifying. We walk along a street market and stop off at Bayo's family compound. When we returned I asked for the money we had not spend. Bayo said it was all spend, actually he has used some of his own to buy sodas. I am puzzled were twenty dollars has gone, that is when we realized that Baba had made a mistake making change for me. When I tell Baba about our mis-adventure in the Osun temple he gets quite angry with Bayo for having entered that domain without explicit instructions from him. It will cost him to repair the social faux pas. I feel bad for Bayo. In his eagerness to be a good tour guide he got in trouble. I promised myself to make it up to him. For starters I give each of my companions 100 nira, less than a dollar but by local standard a good tip.
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